How to Identify VIPs and Provide a Truly Exclusive Experience

Learn proven strategies to identify your VIPs and create the personalized experiences that keep them coming back again and again.

Happy shoppers at a boutique store

Written by

Robert Woo, Writer @ Endear

SHARE THIS ARTICLE

It’s 10am. Do you know where your VIPs are?

In the strange retail environment of 2025 (ahem, see our post about tariffs), the importance of catering to VIP customers has never been clearer. These elite shoppers aren't merely valuable—when the economy slows, they're vital to a brand’s success. According to a recent report by Bain & Company, top-tier customers (or “very important clients,” aka VICs), typically representing just over 2% of a customer base, can account for nearly half (45%) of global luxury purchases.

Likewise, the Pareto Principle (often referenced as the 80/20 rule) holds particularly true in luxury and premium retail, where a small percentage of loyal customers contribute disproportionately to overall sales.

Because of this, identifying and nurturing VIP relationships is a strategic move for sustained retail success for nearly all brands. Companies that excel at VIP clienteling can see profit increases ranging from 10% to 20%, as indicated by research from McKinsey. Clearly, delivering exceptional experiences to VIPs is more than a luxury; it's a business necessity.

So let’s talk about what it takes to discover who your VIPs are, and how to cater to them in order to earn their trust and loyalty.

Understanding the VIP Mindset

A man and a women shop for a green dress

Understanding what motivates and satisfies a VIP customer is critical. Unlike the bulk of your shoppers, VIPs demand not only premium products but a complete, curated experience. Their shopping decisions are often deeply intertwined with their personal identity, lifestyle, and social image.

These discerning customers expect brands to know their preferences, to anticipate their needs, and to deliver personalized services that enhance their shopping journey. They shop not merely out of necessity but out of desire for self-expression and exclusivity.

Convenience, exceptional service, and a sense of recognition and belonging are all part of the equation to make your VIPs feel seen. These customers value their time immensely, expecting brands to provide streamlined, frictionless shopping experiences.

How to Identify Your VIP Customers

Identifying your VIPs goes beyond just spending amounts; it involves sophisticated analysis of shopping patterns, engagement levels, product preferences, and customer advocacy.

Retailers should utilize their Customer Relationship Management (CRM) systems, leveraging analytics in order to segment VIPs effectively and efficiently. A well-configured CRM allows brands to track purchasing frequency, average spend, average order value, response to exclusive offers, attendance at private events, and interactions on social media.

For example, let’s say your CRM has tagged Sarah as a potential VIP due to these reasons:

  • Sarah has made six purchases in the last year at your apparel store, spending a total of $2,500, with an average order value of $417.
  • Each purchase included at least one premium denim item and multiple accessories.
  • She’s well on her way to becoming a "Platinum Tier" member of your loyalty program, having earned over 50,000 points through her purchases and referrals.
  • Sarah doesn’t hesitate to ask store associates for help when she runs into issues, and comments on your social media posts fairly frequently as well.

You can set up your CRM to flag potential VIPs and automatically segment them for VIP nurturing campaigns, or to have your reps follow up with a personal message.

So now that you’ve grouped your VIPs, what’s next?

Crafting an Exclusive VIP Experience

A group of shoppers enjoy drinks

Providing an exclusive VIP experience means transforming every customer interaction into a meaningful, memorable event. This entails extensive personalization and attention to detail, reinforcing the customer’s elite status at every step.

Assigned Store Associates

Assigning a personal shopping associate creates an intimate and deeply clienteling experience. This associate serves as a dedicated concierge, understanding each customer's unique tastes and preferences. For instance, luxury brand Louis Vuitton famously assigns dedicated client advisors to their highest-spending customers, ensuring personalized interactions and seamless shopping experiences, thereby reinforcing brand loyalty.

Exclusive Access and First Looks

Early or exclusive access to new collections or limited-edition items creates an immediate sense of privilege and exclusivity. Brands like Chanel and Gucci frequently use exclusive pre-launch events to drive excitement and reinforce the special status of their VIP clientele. This exclusivity fosters anticipation and loyalty, giving VIPs tangible proof of their esteemed position.

Customized, Private Events

Tailored events offer opportunities to deepen emotional connections with customers. Exclusive experiences such as private dinners, bespoke styling sessions, or meet-and-greet events with designers or brand ambassadors are particularly effective. For instance, Net-a-Porter regularly hosts private styling sessions and designer meet-ups for their top-tier clients, significantly enhancing client loyalty.

Tailored, 1-on-1 Communication

Regular personalized communications, such as messages from their dedicated associates or even handwritten notes for special occasions, significantly elevate the VIP experience. These gestures communicate genuine care and appreciation, transcending mere transactions.

Endear’s Clienteling Recipe: Creating Your VIP Journey

Structured clienteling ensures consistent, exceptional service delivery for VIP customers. Endear’s proven clienteling approach outlines a clear, systematic journey:

Step 1: Customer Meets VIP Criteria

Retailers set clear, measurable criteria (spending thresholds, frequency, or engagement levels) within the CRM system. When customers meet these defined metrics, they're automatically flagged as VIPs.

Step 2: Immediate Assignment to a Local Store Associate

Each VIP customer is immediately paired with a dedicated local associate, establishing a personalized point of contact. This associate is well-informed about the customer’s history and preferences from the CRM data.

Step 3: Personalized VIP Introduction (1 Day Later)

Within a day of reaching VIP status, the customer receives a personalized welcome message from their assigned associate. This initial communication sets the tone, highlighting the benefits of VIP membership and establishing a personal connection.

Step 4: Invitation to Personal IRL Appointment (1 Week Later)

A week later, the customer is invited to a personalized in-store appointment. During these sessions, customers experience bespoke styling consultations, exclusive product previews, and private shopping experiences tailored precisely to their tastes.

Step 5: Regular Monthly Engagement

Consistent monthly check-ins ensure ongoing relationships remain vibrant and active. These interactions are meticulously personalized, from casual check-ins to thoughtful product recommendations and celebratory messages for personal milestones.

Real-World Examples: Brands Mastering VIP Experiences

Several brands exemplify best practices in creating unmatched VIP experiences:

Sephora’s Beauty Insider Program

Sephora’s loyalty tiers provide VIP customers with rewards, early product access, personalized recommendations, and exclusive events. This comprehensive approach has successfully fostered a highly engaged community of loyal shoppers, significantly boosting Sephora’s overall customer lifetime value.

Net-a-Porter’s Extremely Important Person (EIP) Program

Net-a-Porter’s EIP program, catering specifically to their top 2% of customers, includes exclusive access to private collections, bespoke shopping services, and dedicated personal shoppers. This elite group contributes approximately 40% of the company's overall revenue, underlining the immense value of dedicated VIP service.

Farfetch Private Client Program

Farfetch delivers unparalleled personalization through its Private Client Program, which includes exclusive access to rare fashion pieces, personal fashion concierge services, and tailored styling advice. The attention to detail and personal touch consistently strengthen customer loyalty and retention.

Endear Makes VIP Clienteling Easy

Investing in exceptional VIP experiences is not merely about customer service—it’s a strategic priority essential for retail success. Retailers who expertly identify, nurture, and serve VIPs unlock substantial revenue potential and significantly elevate their brand prestige.

By utilizing a structured, data-driven approach such as Endear’s clienteling recipe, retailers can ensure that every VIP interaction feels exclusive, personal, and genuinely thoughtful. Ultimately, fostering strong VIP relationships transforms top-tier customers into lifelong brand ambassadors, driving sustained growth and profitability in the increasingly competitive retail market of 2025.

Ready to Transform Your VIP Experience?

Endear's clienteling platform makes it easy to identify your top customers and deliver the personalized experiences that keep them coming back.